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<blockquote data-quote="SuZir" data-source="post: 665798" data-attributes="member: 14557"><p>To be honest, right now him saying things like that doesn't really hurt but we mainly see it as a practical problem. It makes it more difficult for us to have information or meaningful access. </p><p></p><p>He is not well and everything he does and says right now stems from that. And if you look at it from his current point of view it only makes sense to 'never talk to us again.' And no, we do not expect this 'never' to be especially long time.</p><p></p><p>From his point of view we did something that is ultimate betrayal. He has a good reason to be angry. How he sees it, we have to be either malicious, misguided or right. And if we are right, there is something really wrong in him. And he is not well enough to even consider the last option. And he even got some outside validation that we couldn't be right.</p><p></p><p>On the other hand, from our point of view, we simply didn't have any other option nor would we had ever forgiven ourselves had we not done what we did and if then things we were afraid would had happened. When, or if, Ache again gets to better health, he will get that.</p><p></p><p>His employment isn't really stable but it seems they are understanding this is a medical issue and not a discipline issue and try to treat as such. It just seems Ache doesn't recognise his own situation at all. He is very erratic, close to delusional and seems to operate in very low cognitive level (for him) but claims he has never been better and apparently is able to go through the motions of his every day life.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="SuZir, post: 665798, member: 14557"] To be honest, right now him saying things like that doesn't really hurt but we mainly see it as a practical problem. It makes it more difficult for us to have information or meaningful access. He is not well and everything he does and says right now stems from that. And if you look at it from his current point of view it only makes sense to 'never talk to us again.' And no, we do not expect this 'never' to be especially long time. From his point of view we did something that is ultimate betrayal. He has a good reason to be angry. How he sees it, we have to be either malicious, misguided or right. And if we are right, there is something really wrong in him. And he is not well enough to even consider the last option. And he even got some outside validation that we couldn't be right. On the other hand, from our point of view, we simply didn't have any other option nor would we had ever forgiven ourselves had we not done what we did and if then things we were afraid would had happened. When, or if, Ache again gets to better health, he will get that. His employment isn't really stable but it seems they are understanding this is a medical issue and not a discipline issue and try to treat as such. It just seems Ache doesn't recognise his own situation at all. He is very erratic, close to delusional and seems to operate in very low cognitive level (for him) but claims he has never been better and apparently is able to go through the motions of his every day life. [/QUOTE]
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