Even though he's on probation. He swiped my earbuds a cpl wks ago (it's on a thread here somewhere) and we have ZERO tolerance since the jewelry issue and court. Last wk or the wk b4, I stupidly bought Quaker Oat bars because I can shove them in my purse and snack when I'm in between shuttling him to school and tutoring, and P's dr appts, and the entire box went missing. Makes me think I'm losing my mind. If he'd opened it and left it, I'd remember. So, husband found all the wrappers in his room today. And some clothes that smelled like urine. Ew. So sad. difficult child is doing a bit better on some things, and I hate to make everything so negative, but we have to have a zero stealing policy. There is a reason I have a lock on my office door. I store MY food in here, which either he is allergic to, or which I simply want as a treat for myself. I am sure I left the door unlocked on more than one occasion. I cannot ever let my guard down. (This is why I am not a Navy SEAL.) husband picked up difficult child from his girlfriend's house and difficult child is HOT. husband and he yelled at one another in the car all the way home. Now difficult child is waiting outside and cooling off. And husband is trying to get his voice back. difficult child had the gall to come up to me with-the wrappers in his fist and say, in an angry voice, "So, Dad said you had something to talk to me about. What is it? I want to go back to my girlfriend's house." Huh?