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<blockquote data-quote="in a daze" data-source="post: 637533" data-attributes="member: 15832"><p>(Quote) There are so many things I would love to do for difficult child as he seems to be doing some really hard things himself, and doing them consistently (if you can call 10 to 12 weeks or so consistent). </p><p></p><p>He's working full time, riding a bike to work in the dark, in the cold, has no place of his own to live in, going to probation once a week, and then another probation every three weeks, paying fines, has no phone....somehow making it without any help from me at all.</p><p></p><p>It's so tempting to step in and help. But in my humble opinion, this is the exact time NOT to do that. They must figure life out. They must navigate the ups and downs and other people and hard times and cold mornings and no car and minimum wage because...they missed all of that. </p><p></p><p>This is what growing up is all about. (I am talking as much to myself here as to you.).</p><p></p><p>COM, it's so easy to just swoop in and try to solve their problems, but we know that's not the right thing to do. You're right. They have to figure it out themselves.</p><p></p><p>And I just may not see him if he is in a bad mood. </p><p></p><p>I hope your son and mine can continue on this positive trajectory.</p><p></p><p></p><p>Read more: <a href="http://www.conductdisorders.com/community/threads/he-wants-to-move-out-of-sober-living.58909/#ixzz3Gisu9Nyg" target="_blank">http://www.conductdisorders.com/community/threads/he-wants-to-move-out-of-sober-living.58909/#ixzz3Gisu9Nyg</a></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="in a daze, post: 637533, member: 15832"] (Quote) There are so many things I would love to do for difficult child as he seems to be doing some really hard things himself, and doing them consistently (if you can call 10 to 12 weeks or so consistent). He's working full time, riding a bike to work in the dark, in the cold, has no place of his own to live in, going to probation once a week, and then another probation every three weeks, paying fines, has no phone....somehow making it without any help from me at all. It's so tempting to step in and help. But in my humble opinion, this is the exact time NOT to do that. They must figure life out. They must navigate the ups and downs and other people and hard times and cold mornings and no car and minimum wage because...they missed all of that. This is what growing up is all about. (I am talking as much to myself here as to you.). COM, it's so easy to just swoop in and try to solve their problems, but we know that's not the right thing to do. You're right. They have to figure it out themselves. And I just may not see him if he is in a bad mood. I hope your son and mine can continue on this positive trajectory. Read more: [url]http://www.conductdisorders.com/community/threads/he-wants-to-move-out-of-sober-living.58909/#ixzz3Gisu9Nyg[/url] [/QUOTE]
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