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He wants to spend the night.
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<blockquote data-quote="Copabanana" data-source="post: 663515" data-attributes="member: 18958"><p>Why go there? He has his own living</p><p>situation.</p><p></p><p>I am assuming he lives within 45 minutes or so away from your house. That is distance where he can visit and comfortably return to where he lives, in the same day or evening. </p><p></p><p>He is depressed and with social anxiety. There are treatments for this. </p><p></p><p>He is a 28 year old MAN. He may be your son but he is a MAN.</p><p></p><p>Have him over for a BBQ and he can go home. Invite him to go out to Pizza and a movie. He can go home. </p><p></p><p>There are all kinds of ways to be family and close that do not compromise you and your space. The thing is, buying in to the idea that he needs you and your husband and your home in order to be complete is not good for him.</p><p></p><p>In a daze, you are strong. Trust your instincts. You are right.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Copabanana, post: 663515, member: 18958"] Why go there? He has his own living situation. I am assuming he lives within 45 minutes or so away from your house. That is distance where he can visit and comfortably return to where he lives, in the same day or evening. He is depressed and with social anxiety. There are treatments for this. He is a 28 year old MAN. He may be your son but he is a MAN. Have him over for a BBQ and he can go home. Invite him to go out to Pizza and a movie. He can go home. There are all kinds of ways to be family and close that do not compromise you and your space. The thing is, buying in to the idea that he needs you and your husband and your home in order to be complete is not good for him. In a daze, you are strong. Trust your instincts. You are right. [/QUOTE]
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