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Healing from Narcissistic Relationship: Very good article
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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 675068" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>I didn't deny it happened, but for a long time I was in the fog about whose fault it was. I thought all the dysfunction and my being ostracized was my own fault, even when I was an infant and child. I gave no role in my own family play to anyone else. I was the bad guy, period, although, in the back of my mind, I somehow couldn't really see anyone in my FOO as a GOOD guy, but I had such low self esteem that if somebody said I was bad, mental, selfish, stupid etc. it HAD to be true. It took me a long time and lots of therapy to see th at I was only one small part in one big dysfunctional family that has no well-balanced people in it.I didn't realize it until I was older and got to know my sister better...the REAL her...the one she hides from the world and is good at her acting. More about that in earlier posts. Done repeating about her. Like you said, it's exhausting!!!</p><p></p><p>So much more on my journey, but I'm on my way now to see my granddaughter and daughter for Christmas in the NW Chicago burbs.</p><p></p><p>Everyone have a serene and happy weekend!!!!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 675068, member: 1550"] I didn't deny it happened, but for a long time I was in the fog about whose fault it was. I thought all the dysfunction and my being ostracized was my own fault, even when I was an infant and child. I gave no role in my own family play to anyone else. I was the bad guy, period, although, in the back of my mind, I somehow couldn't really see anyone in my FOO as a GOOD guy, but I had such low self esteem that if somebody said I was bad, mental, selfish, stupid etc. it HAD to be true. It took me a long time and lots of therapy to see th at I was only one small part in one big dysfunctional family that has no well-balanced people in it.I didn't realize it until I was older and got to know my sister better...the REAL her...the one she hides from the world and is good at her acting. More about that in earlier posts. Done repeating about her. Like you said, it's exhausting!!! So much more on my journey, but I'm on my way now to see my granddaughter and daughter for Christmas in the NW Chicago burbs. Everyone have a serene and happy weekend!!!! [/QUOTE]
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