I have not seen much of my daughter since she started her full time job plus still running her spa. I have noticed a few things since I have not spent time with my daughter. I still talk with her on the phone. Since I have not spend much time with her~ ~ I have a lot more energy and in good spirits. ~My nerves are calm and I eat healthy foods. ~My mind does not go bonkers trying to piece meal the lies together to try to make sense of what my daughter is trying to tell me. ~I noticed my skin looks so much better and my rash is almost gone. ~The lies are still coming over the phone, the amount is alarming yet I feel I have a safe distance.. ~My sleep is so much better, deep and peaceful. It is still as she calls to suck me dry and fill me with BS. But I can get off the phone quickly and not feel guilty.. Listening to the BS on the phone is easier than if she was with me. I realize I miss and grieve for what could have been, how deeply sad it is to want a strong healthy connection with my daughter and know that all she wants from me is to use me. The freedom I feel from not having to listen to complete bull S or how behind on her bills she is or about how sick her period is making her or all the other one million complaints that she tries to toxify my system with. There is a good life out there to be had.