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<blockquote data-quote="nlj" data-source="post: 634001" data-attributes="member: 17650"><p>My heart goes out to you life2day.</p><p></p><p>I recognise a lot of my own son in what you have written. It <em>is </em>possible to find a way to live with this and maintain a relationship with your son. You can continue to love him, but accept what is and know that you can't change it. It's not your fault. Let go of the sorrow of seeing him like this. Things haven't turned out how you wanted them to, but we can't control our children's lives. For me, that means loving my son unconditionally, even though he smells and lives in a squat and rages against the world and has all his belongings in one filthy, ragged backpack. But that's my way, it's not for everyone. You will find lots of different views and experiences and insights in this site. I hope you will find some consolation and useful advice here and that you will find your own way to cope with this. Know that we are all here to listen and support you.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="nlj, post: 634001, member: 17650"] My heart goes out to you life2day. I recognise a lot of my own son in what you have written. It [I]is [/I]possible to find a way to live with this and maintain a relationship with your son. You can continue to love him, but accept what is and know that you can't change it. It's not your fault. Let go of the sorrow of seeing him like this. Things haven't turned out how you wanted them to, but we can't control our children's lives. For me, that means loving my son unconditionally, even though he smells and lives in a squat and rages against the world and has all his belongings in one filthy, ragged backpack. But that's my way, it's not for everyone. You will find lots of different views and experiences and insights in this site. I hope you will find some consolation and useful advice here and that you will find your own way to cope with this. Know that we are all here to listen and support you. [/QUOTE]
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