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<blockquote data-quote="mom_to_3" data-source="post: 68112" data-attributes="member: 30"><p>Traci,</p><p></p><p>While our difficult child's are different with their problems, they are still difficult child's. We just offered our difficult child a hand up, we really thought she had sunk to her bottom and wanted a way out.</p><p></p><p>Other posters have given you excellent advice, your sons life lies squarely on <strong>his</strong> and only on <strong>his</strong> shoulders. You can offer a gazillion things, throw money at him, give him opportunities, beg, plead, support, and even carve out a path for him, but until <strong>HE and ONLY HE</strong> wants a better life and struggles <strong>HIMSELF</strong> to find his way and achieve, you will be setting yourself and him up for prolonged pain if you participate and set things up for him. <strong>HE</strong> has to want it and take the action to make it happen. You can't do this for him.</p><p></p><p>I wish you much strength and peace in the days ahead.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="mom_to_3, post: 68112, member: 30"] Traci, While our difficult child's are different with their problems, they are still difficult child's. We just offered our difficult child a hand up, we really thought she had sunk to her bottom and wanted a way out. Other posters have given you excellent advice, your sons life lies squarely on [B]his[/B] and only on [B]his[/B] shoulders. You can offer a gazillion things, throw money at him, give him opportunities, beg, plead, support, and even carve out a path for him, but until [B]HE and ONLY HE[/B] wants a better life and struggles [B]HIMSELF[/B] to find his way and achieve, you will be setting yourself and him up for prolonged pain if you participate and set things up for him. [B]HE[/B] has to want it and take the action to make it happen. You can't do this for him. I wish you much strength and peace in the days ahead. [/QUOTE]
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