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Hello - New here and would appeciate any advice
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<blockquote data-quote="Jena" data-source="post: 377887" data-attributes="member: 4514"><p>hi,</p><p> </p><p>how great that you adopted! what a lucky child. i know you aren't feeling soo lucky right now lol, it sooo isnt' easy. sounds like your ontop of it and doing best you possibly can though. i'm sorry you are giong through that when it gets physical it's tough.</p><p> </p><p>i agree i would ask the doctor to show you the hold dependant upon how old she is. also i'd make sure to clear her room of any possible weapons which when they rage can be anything. you should have an emergency plan in place when she begins going there and you see the signs. and i've learned from experience that a move can trigger them bad also.Yet as parents we have to do what we have to do to support our kids and sometimes that means moving.</p><p> </p><p>when my difficult child did that not so long ago and she is now eleven to be honest i used my verbal tactics first to calm and when that didn't work and she became more verbally aggressive than began reaching at objects throwing etc. pushing me i literally threatened her and said if you cannot calm down i will place you in my truck and bring you to the hospital where a dr. will help you calm down because rules of our home are you cannot hit, throw, break. </p><p> </p><p>i dont know if you can go there with-her being younger like that. I think in my sleepless mom thoughts right now i'd contain her in a rm so at least the damage done is only to one room and try to manipulate her somewhat without increaing the aggression away from you. the hold thing should work for her, look into that. post rules of house also. with alot of our kids becaues it's a chemical inbalance that won't work yet for some it does. they know that's the law of the house kinda thing.</p><p> </p><p>good luck to you........ i know it isnt' easy</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Jena, post: 377887, member: 4514"] hi, how great that you adopted! what a lucky child. i know you aren't feeling soo lucky right now lol, it sooo isnt' easy. sounds like your ontop of it and doing best you possibly can though. i'm sorry you are giong through that when it gets physical it's tough. i agree i would ask the doctor to show you the hold dependant upon how old she is. also i'd make sure to clear her room of any possible weapons which when they rage can be anything. you should have an emergency plan in place when she begins going there and you see the signs. and i've learned from experience that a move can trigger them bad also.Yet as parents we have to do what we have to do to support our kids and sometimes that means moving. when my difficult child did that not so long ago and she is now eleven to be honest i used my verbal tactics first to calm and when that didn't work and she became more verbally aggressive than began reaching at objects throwing etc. pushing me i literally threatened her and said if you cannot calm down i will place you in my truck and bring you to the hospital where a dr. will help you calm down because rules of our home are you cannot hit, throw, break. i dont know if you can go there with-her being younger like that. I think in my sleepless mom thoughts right now i'd contain her in a rm so at least the damage done is only to one room and try to manipulate her somewhat without increaing the aggression away from you. the hold thing should work for her, look into that. post rules of house also. with alot of our kids becaues it's a chemical inbalance that won't work yet for some it does. they know that's the law of the house kinda thing. good luck to you........ i know it isnt' easy [/QUOTE]
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