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<blockquote data-quote="Coffee Lover" data-source="post: 710105" data-attributes="member: 21380"><p>I totally am in the same boat! The minute someone has a problem with their kid, some are minor but some are major, they seek me out. I don't share info either, but that does help. I just don't get why there has to be a stigma. I mean, my son made his issues obvious - there's no hiding! But I guess I feel like, we can't help him if we don't accept what is happening and then start working on it. </p><p></p><p>I do worry about what my son deals with at his dads. His dad is not a bad guy. Was it a bad marriage, yeah!!!!!!!! but he does do some things that I don't agree with, don't like, and I do not think help matters. Right now, he and his new wife keep having huge fights and a couple have turned physical between them - I don't think that's helping our son to see how to handle anger and keep his hands to himself. And its certainly not helping with anger issues or any of the mindfulness that school and I are doing. He's not getting his medications there either, although the bottle comes back to me after visits empty, my son says he's just throwing them away. Ugh. </p><p></p><p>I have a few court things in the works right now. Right now I have sole mental health/medications, school, IEP authority over our son, but it was granted on a temporary emergency basis. We went to court in February to revisit it and the judge upheld it, and now we have to go next Tuesday to reevaluate again. If they don't see a reason for this to change now, it SHOULD stay permanent (at least until ex files another motion...). </p><p></p><p>Its so overwhelming. Just not what I "signed up for", you know? <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Coffee Lover, post: 710105, member: 21380"] I totally am in the same boat! The minute someone has a problem with their kid, some are minor but some are major, they seek me out. I don't share info either, but that does help. I just don't get why there has to be a stigma. I mean, my son made his issues obvious - there's no hiding! But I guess I feel like, we can't help him if we don't accept what is happening and then start working on it. I do worry about what my son deals with at his dads. His dad is not a bad guy. Was it a bad marriage, yeah!!!!!!!! but he does do some things that I don't agree with, don't like, and I do not think help matters. Right now, he and his new wife keep having huge fights and a couple have turned physical between them - I don't think that's helping our son to see how to handle anger and keep his hands to himself. And its certainly not helping with anger issues or any of the mindfulness that school and I are doing. He's not getting his medications there either, although the bottle comes back to me after visits empty, my son says he's just throwing them away. Ugh. I have a few court things in the works right now. Right now I have sole mental health/medications, school, IEP authority over our son, but it was granted on a temporary emergency basis. We went to court in February to revisit it and the judge upheld it, and now we have to go next Tuesday to reevaluate again. If they don't see a reason for this to change now, it SHOULD stay permanent (at least until ex files another motion...). Its so overwhelming. Just not what I "signed up for", you know? :) [/QUOTE]
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