Our 22 year old daughter is ADD, but not generally a problem. However, she has me in a dilemma right now. She has met a guy on myspace. He is a habitual criminal, an abuser and a liar, from what I have seen so far. Thankfully, they have yet to meet in person. She told me last night she "found a great guy and wants to be with him for life. Yeah he has had some trouble with the law but it has been a year since his last trouble." Sure, and it happens about once a year- I looked it up on his county's website. How do I guide her to a better place without running her off. We have really good rapport right now. We talk on the phone several times a day, and she will email me- we've passed several back and forth about her buddy. He even emailed me- but I think some of it is lies. My "mommy" gut instinct is full of big, heavy red flags!