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Help: my 23 year old daughter is stealing
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<blockquote data-quote="ksm" data-source="post: 718836" data-attributes="member: 12511"><p>Register your cards on line, so you don't have to wait for a statement. 2 or 3 times a week, log on and check. Get an extra check book register and write down your transactions and check it against the online.</p><p></p><p>If she is getting your keys and your credit cards, then hey are not secured.</p><p></p><p>Ok, what if you turn her in and the police find other infractions?? Then that is her problem, not yours. She needs to make restitution to who ever she stole from.</p><p></p><p>I really think you need to talk to a therapist and find out why you accepting criminal behavior from an adult child in your own home.</p><p></p><p>If you are adamant about not calling the police right now, how about using it as leverage that she must seek help (and not on your dime!) or you do report the misuse of credit cards. Or that she had to move if she doesn't follow thru with treatment?</p><p></p><p>I still think talking to a therapist is your first priority.</p><p></p><p>Ksm</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="ksm, post: 718836, member: 12511"] Register your cards on line, so you don't have to wait for a statement. 2 or 3 times a week, log on and check. Get an extra check book register and write down your transactions and check it against the online. If she is getting your keys and your credit cards, then hey are not secured. Ok, what if you turn her in and the police find other infractions?? Then that is her problem, not yours. She needs to make restitution to who ever she stole from. I really think you need to talk to a therapist and find out why you accepting criminal behavior from an adult child in your own home. If you are adamant about not calling the police right now, how about using it as leverage that she must seek help (and not on your dime!) or you do report the misuse of credit cards. Or that she had to move if she doesn't follow thru with treatment? I still think talking to a therapist is your first priority. Ksm [/QUOTE]
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