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<blockquote data-quote="Perplexed" data-source="post: 667990" data-attributes="member: 19586"><p>Thank you so much for your response. It is heartwarming to think there is someone who will listen. I have tried to do things for myself but circumstances don't allow it. Money is a factor and the only transport I have is uber. I did crochet in my youth and was going to do a few bits for my daughter but when I mentioned it was told, it's old fashioned! You know it's the little things that get to me and perhaps I am over reacting. For instance my daughter is in the medical field and I need a shot each month. I asked her to do it for me to save money and bought the needles and syringes etc. I put them on the counter and asked twice if she would do it and each time she said yes, but it never happened. Now I take a cab and go to a clinic and pay to have it done. This makes me sad as I feel this is something she should do to help me. However if any of her friends want anything, she rushes to their aid. Maybe I just expect too much and should just put up with the abuse. I know she will be qualified in December 2016 so not long really. Speaking of Christmas, last year she decided it was to be cancelled as she was unhappy with her situation. I was told not to put up a tree or any decorations. I really hated this but her home, her rules. She the. Ate a hurried lunch made with her in mind and left for the day to be with a friends family. I was truly devastated by this. Of course she did not cancel the gift side of things. I bought her lots of little things as I usually do and some were "given back" to me as unsuitable in one way or another. I could go on and on but I am so confused as I don't want to hurt her in any way and walk in egg shells around her all the time. Sorry to go on but I don't know what to do</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Perplexed, post: 667990, member: 19586"] Thank you so much for your response. It is heartwarming to think there is someone who will listen. I have tried to do things for myself but circumstances don't allow it. Money is a factor and the only transport I have is uber. I did crochet in my youth and was going to do a few bits for my daughter but when I mentioned it was told, it's old fashioned! You know it's the little things that get to me and perhaps I am over reacting. For instance my daughter is in the medical field and I need a shot each month. I asked her to do it for me to save money and bought the needles and syringes etc. I put them on the counter and asked twice if she would do it and each time she said yes, but it never happened. Now I take a cab and go to a clinic and pay to have it done. This makes me sad as I feel this is something she should do to help me. However if any of her friends want anything, she rushes to their aid. Maybe I just expect too much and should just put up with the abuse. I know she will be qualified in December 2016 so not long really. Speaking of Christmas, last year she decided it was to be cancelled as she was unhappy with her situation. I was told not to put up a tree or any decorations. I really hated this but her home, her rules. She the. Ate a hurried lunch made with her in mind and left for the day to be with a friends family. I was truly devastated by this. Of course she did not cancel the gift side of things. I bought her lots of little things as I usually do and some were "given back" to me as unsuitable in one way or another. I could go on and on but I am so confused as I don't want to hurt her in any way and walk in egg shells around her all the time. Sorry to go on but I don't know what to do [/QUOTE]
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