My B2 was recently diagnosed with ADHD, ODD and Mood Disorder not otherwise specified. My older child - B1, has just begun to act out in the last few days, exhibiting many of the same behaviors that his younger brother is doing (hitting, kicking, spitting, using inappropriate language, etc.). I have had many discussion with him in reguards to his brother behavior and that we are trying to work on them as a team. I think that him seeing me being challenged with dealing with B2's behavior is causing him to be stressed out here at home. I have been trying my best to do things one on one with just him so that he is getting the attention that he needs, but I am having trouble finding the time since so many of my close friends that use to look after B2 for me, have backed away from the family so my babysitting resources are slim... I have enough on my plate already and don't know how I am going to handle an esclating 2nd child!