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Hi-
I posted once a few weeks ago. I mainly lurk but just that makes me feel a bit better that I am not the only one dealing with a difficult child.
My ds or difficult child is 10. He has a history of being very defiant( at home), occasionally aggressive with husband, brother, and I, very moody (can change in a snap), extremely emotionally immature ( has tantrums the minute it is not his way), and has anger issues! Twice already this year difficult child has been so out of control emotionally, I was afraid and though I had to call for help but then he calmed down.
We have tried 2 psychologists over the past 2 yrs. but difficult child refuses to go or won't participate if he does. Both psychiatric. tried behavior charts, etc...nothing worked. We found a counselor that ran an anger management class for kids his age and after the 5 wk course we also see him privately. difficult child will speak to him but there is no change in his behavior.
We have never been given a diagnosis. difficult child has begun to show his moodiness in school at times I have been told by the teacher. difficult child is extremely smart ( an A student) and athletic and gets along with friends (but really pushes to have things his way or says he won't play).
At this point I feel that things are progressively worse for us and want to do more for difficult child and us as a family as things are not too pleasant here at times and it is not fair to our other ds who is 4. I know this sounds terrible but some days I feel sick when the bus comes home from school because I fear the rest of the day.
I want a diagnosis because at this point, I think we have tried all the basics. Also, the last psychiatric. said medications may help.
My question is, do I just make appointment. with psychiatrist or go straigh to a neurpsychiatrist? I want to just take the straight path now, not go round in circles anymore. Also, will the psychiatrist or neuropsychologist. provide counseling sessions or do I still need to have a psychologist for that?
Thank you for your input. I can't tell you how I cry wondering how to help my difficult child. Some days I feel he is falling apart and I have to find help. Our whole family life is affected as we hate to accept invitations anywhere or have people over since we never know when difficult child will act up! It can be embarresing and I know every eye is on us. It is awful!
Thanks again for the help.
me- over 40, stay at home mom- no family history of mental or emotional issues
husband - over 40, doesn't want to admit something wrong with ds- no family history
difficult child- 10 ds, emotional and behavior issues..no diagnosis
easy child- 4 ds- joy when difficult child not around, otherwise reacts to him
I posted once a few weeks ago. I mainly lurk but just that makes me feel a bit better that I am not the only one dealing with a difficult child.
My ds or difficult child is 10. He has a history of being very defiant( at home), occasionally aggressive with husband, brother, and I, very moody (can change in a snap), extremely emotionally immature ( has tantrums the minute it is not his way), and has anger issues! Twice already this year difficult child has been so out of control emotionally, I was afraid and though I had to call for help but then he calmed down.
We have tried 2 psychologists over the past 2 yrs. but difficult child refuses to go or won't participate if he does. Both psychiatric. tried behavior charts, etc...nothing worked. We found a counselor that ran an anger management class for kids his age and after the 5 wk course we also see him privately. difficult child will speak to him but there is no change in his behavior.
We have never been given a diagnosis. difficult child has begun to show his moodiness in school at times I have been told by the teacher. difficult child is extremely smart ( an A student) and athletic and gets along with friends (but really pushes to have things his way or says he won't play).
At this point I feel that things are progressively worse for us and want to do more for difficult child and us as a family as things are not too pleasant here at times and it is not fair to our other ds who is 4. I know this sounds terrible but some days I feel sick when the bus comes home from school because I fear the rest of the day.
I want a diagnosis because at this point, I think we have tried all the basics. Also, the last psychiatric. said medications may help.
My question is, do I just make appointment. with psychiatrist or go straigh to a neurpsychiatrist? I want to just take the straight path now, not go round in circles anymore. Also, will the psychiatrist or neuropsychologist. provide counseling sessions or do I still need to have a psychologist for that?
Thank you for your input. I can't tell you how I cry wondering how to help my difficult child. Some days I feel he is falling apart and I have to find help. Our whole family life is affected as we hate to accept invitations anywhere or have people over since we never know when difficult child will act up! It can be embarresing and I know every eye is on us. It is awful!
Thanks again for the help.
me- over 40, stay at home mom- no family history of mental or emotional issues
husband - over 40, doesn't want to admit something wrong with ds- no family history
difficult child- 10 ds, emotional and behavior issues..no diagnosis
easy child- 4 ds- joy when difficult child not around, otherwise reacts to him