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<blockquote data-quote="ksm" data-source="post: 691254" data-attributes="member: 12511"><p>She won't tell me...she won't tell authorities. We went thru something similar a year ago when I found out she had sex with her boyfriend. She was 14. Legal age is 16 where we live. The police sent me to the a sexual abuse department. They said, even though she was under age, I could not get a restraining order on her behalf. She would have to request and sign the restraining order, and she refused. The police refused to do any thing with out her signing the request. It is a catch-22. </p><p></p><p>She does not have an IEP. Her main issues have been depression and anxiety. She refuses to rake medications for it. She just shuts down the more I push. </p><p></p><p>I think she is easily manipulated by friends/boyfriends as she lacks self esteem. She has told me how difficult it is to say no. She wants to please everyone else, even if she isn't happy about it. I think being removed from her parents and a year of foster care, and adoption by us, her grandparents, has left her with issues... Plus her biomom has set her up for disappointments by always promising to move back to our state, but has been gone for 6 years.</p><p></p><p>Hope this explains some back story.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="ksm, post: 691254, member: 12511"] She won't tell me...she won't tell authorities. We went thru something similar a year ago when I found out she had sex with her boyfriend. She was 14. Legal age is 16 where we live. The police sent me to the a sexual abuse department. They said, even though she was under age, I could not get a restraining order on her behalf. She would have to request and sign the restraining order, and she refused. The police refused to do any thing with out her signing the request. It is a catch-22. She does not have an IEP. Her main issues have been depression and anxiety. She refuses to rake medications for it. She just shuts down the more I push. I think she is easily manipulated by friends/boyfriends as she lacks self esteem. She has told me how difficult it is to say no. She wants to please everyone else, even if she isn't happy about it. I think being removed from her parents and a year of foster care, and adoption by us, her grandparents, has left her with issues... Plus her biomom has set her up for disappointments by always promising to move back to our state, but has been gone for 6 years. Hope this explains some back story. [/QUOTE]
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