I'm new here I have lurked here and there. My son is 5 years old and he has been suspended for the third time in 3 weeks. He has only attended school maybe 3 times this month. He was diagnosed with anxiety from one Dr, but the Dr passed and we were just getting started with his diagnosis. The new Dr diagnosed him with odd and said medications would not work. My son has been aggressive in school. He has escalated to hitting other students. He usually starts with knocking things off of the desk then when the teacher threatens to move his clip down on the chart he gets over the top and has hit other children the teacher has restrained him and when she is holding him down he kicks and fights back. Today he became upset and knocked his work off of his desk and the teacher grabbed him he started kicking and hitting and he accidentally hit a student walking by. I know this time it was an accident because he said it was when asked, he usually says he doesn't know or he was tired. He has been on tenex 1/2 pill in morning half in the afternoon and Cloisonne pill to sleep at night. Today he started a whole pill in the morning and half at night. I requested an evaluation so that we can get him an iep. The school.said that he is on the list, he will be evaluated when his,name comes up, but in the,meantime they don't know what to do and they are starting expulsion proceedings. They said they don't have to accommodate him without an iep. They said they don't have to educate him until he is 8. I don't know what to do. He goes to a charter schools.