I am searching for any help for me possible. I have a 5 yo little boy who has had problems before with aggression and attention problems.During the summer he had been at home and we have managed him well.We have a very strict schedule and rules with set consequences.We do not see violence or aggressiveness at home towards us or his 10 mo old brother. He started Kindergarten on 8/8 and has had multple problems with hitting pushing and kicking. we had an iep that was wrote in may of last year when his preschool had the school psyscoligist evaluate him, but i was hoping that over the summer he had improved.But i was wrong.He has an ADHD diagnosis we tried focalin and daytrana which both he had allergic reactions to.He has sensory integration and wont take oral medications so we havent tried anything else medication wise. On Monday the school wanted to move him to a all day EBD classroom away from the other kids. I wasnt really up on the idea i wanted to have a team meeting and get input from someone else other than the vice principal and his teacher, the earliest we can do that is next wed.In the mean time they decided to suspend him for physical assualt when he pushed another child down.I was at wits end we had talked to him about things punished him at home and even striped his room to his bed and dresser, i didn't know what else to do, so I took him to a psyciatric hospital with a childrens unit to be evaluated, and they decided to admit him to get him stable and on some medications.I feel like tthe worst mom for leaving him.I question wether I did the right thing, I didnt HAVE to take him, maybe I should have done something different at home.He's never spent the night away. I almost regret my decision, i need some other peoples input who have chilren with similar problems.Do kids this young usually have to stay somewhere or is he that bad. any in put is appreciated