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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 723439" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>I get it. Not until he confessed the molestation did they take hom away to residential.</p><p></p><p>Actually, the county, with NO prodding from us, charged him with sexual assault of a minor and found him guilty! HE was a minor, 13, but if a child molests a kid six years younger it is considered sexual assault at least in our state. They had his face on the sexual predaors list! He was 13. He is no longer on it at 27. I dont know if there is a time limit or if he just didnt register and has not been caught. He has four little children with a wife and pictures on FB of him cuddling the babies and I pray he is not still doing....you know what.</p><p></p><p>My adult kids, whom he touched, refer to him as "psycho kid." They are glad he was not allowed back. Both are doing great now...one is close to graduating from the police academy...I think they would not have healed as well if we had let him come back, no matter how closely we watched him. CPS paid for extensive, excellent therapy to heal us...they were amazing.</p><p></p><p>Eventually, the state dissolved the adoption. He still goes by our last name but from spying on FB I am relieved he found his birth family. So he FBs a little with out of state birthmom who almost killed him as sn infant by only giving him water until he had a seizure and brain swelling and who abandoned him over and over again and took drugs while pregnant. But now he can take care of himself. He is well over six feet tall, or so he lists himself as 6'4. And he also is in touch with sisters and cousins. So he isnt alone at all.</p><p></p><p>Alleviates any existing guilt, but I had three other kids...I had to protect them first. I never wavered nor did husband.</p><p></p><p>Hard decisions sometimes.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 723439, member: 1550"] I get it. Not until he confessed the molestation did they take hom away to residential. Actually, the county, with NO prodding from us, charged him with sexual assault of a minor and found him guilty! HE was a minor, 13, but if a child molests a kid six years younger it is considered sexual assault at least in our state. They had his face on the sexual predaors list! He was 13. He is no longer on it at 27. I dont know if there is a time limit or if he just didnt register and has not been caught. He has four little children with a wife and pictures on FB of him cuddling the babies and I pray he is not still doing....you know what. My adult kids, whom he touched, refer to him as "psycho kid." They are glad he was not allowed back. Both are doing great now...one is close to graduating from the police academy...I think they would not have healed as well if we had let him come back, no matter how closely we watched him. CPS paid for extensive, excellent therapy to heal us...they were amazing. Eventually, the state dissolved the adoption. He still goes by our last name but from spying on FB I am relieved he found his birth family. So he FBs a little with out of state birthmom who almost killed him as sn infant by only giving him water until he had a seizure and brain swelling and who abandoned him over and over again and took drugs while pregnant. But now he can take care of himself. He is well over six feet tall, or so he lists himself as 6'4. And he also is in touch with sisters and cousins. So he isnt alone at all. Alleviates any existing guilt, but I had three other kids...I had to protect them first. I never wavered nor did husband. Hard decisions sometimes. [/QUOTE]
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