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<blockquote data-quote="Liahona" data-source="post: 38180" data-attributes="member: 3199"><p>Of course he isn't comfortable at ex's if ex is leaving bruises on him. Was ex abusive to you? My difficult child 1 doesn't have any behaviors with my ex because he would beat the tar out of him. </p><p></p><p>I go to court often with ex and I try to not let it affect difficult child 1's treatment. What we go to court over is because ex is an idiot. Its not to determine the best interest of the child. You need a lawyer in Indiana. With the help of the lawyer maybe you could draft a letter stating your concerns, the behaviors your difficult child exhibited that led to this trial, and that this is only a trial period and the honeymoon isn't over yet and (maybe depending on how sure you are of yourself) what you intend on doing should this fail and what are the conditions that would constitute failure of the trial. Mention the bruises in this letter and send it by email. Email is more court friendly because it is time and date stamped. Definantly get a lawyers input because this might be to much information to hand over to someone that will be opposing you or it might need to be written in a certain way to go over well in court.</p><p></p><p>Oh some other thoughts. If you and ex are in court difficult child might use that to his advantage if he doesn't like the rules of one household or the other. Especially if he knows the spanking is an issue with you and the money is an issue with ex.</p><p></p><p>Good luck! I really hate court.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Liahona, post: 38180, member: 3199"] Of course he isn't comfortable at ex's if ex is leaving bruises on him. Was ex abusive to you? My difficult child 1 doesn't have any behaviors with my ex because he would beat the tar out of him. I go to court often with ex and I try to not let it affect difficult child 1's treatment. What we go to court over is because ex is an idiot. Its not to determine the best interest of the child. You need a lawyer in Indiana. With the help of the lawyer maybe you could draft a letter stating your concerns, the behaviors your difficult child exhibited that led to this trial, and that this is only a trial period and the honeymoon isn't over yet and (maybe depending on how sure you are of yourself) what you intend on doing should this fail and what are the conditions that would constitute failure of the trial. Mention the bruises in this letter and send it by email. Email is more court friendly because it is time and date stamped. Definantly get a lawyers input because this might be to much information to hand over to someone that will be opposing you or it might need to be written in a certain way to go over well in court. Oh some other thoughts. If you and ex are in court difficult child might use that to his advantage if he doesn't like the rules of one household or the other. Especially if he knows the spanking is an issue with you and the money is an issue with ex. Good luck! I really hate court. [/QUOTE]
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