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<blockquote data-quote="Tanya M" data-source="post: 721828" data-attributes="member: 18516"><p>I think you are doing really good. You have been there for your children, you have helped them the best you can. Now it's up to them. I'm glad to hear your daughter is doing better. I hope she continues doing well.</p><p>Your son is 31 and is struggling with his own identity. I think this is very common with our adult children, especially when we as the parents gave them everything. I think it's really hard for them to figure out that we the parents are no longer going to give them everything and make their life easy. They can become very resentful because of this. It's time your son learns how to take care of himself.</p><p>As for you not living up to your sons expectations, you don't need to. You have raised your son the best you could. Like all of us I'm sure you made mistakes. We have all done the best we could and with that, it's time to move on. </p><p>Try not to worry when you don't hear from him. Let him have the time and space he needs.</p><p>I would go months without hearing from my son and when I did it was because he wanted something from me, usually money.</p><p>Now is the time for you to enjoy your life. You now have your new home so enjoy it.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Tanya M, post: 721828, member: 18516"] I think you are doing really good. You have been there for your children, you have helped them the best you can. Now it's up to them. I'm glad to hear your daughter is doing better. I hope she continues doing well. Your son is 31 and is struggling with his own identity. I think this is very common with our adult children, especially when we as the parents gave them everything. I think it's really hard for them to figure out that we the parents are no longer going to give them everything and make their life easy. They can become very resentful because of this. It's time your son learns how to take care of himself. As for you not living up to your sons expectations, you don't need to. You have raised your son the best you could. Like all of us I'm sure you made mistakes. We have all done the best we could and with that, it's time to move on. Try not to worry when you don't hear from him. Let him have the time and space he needs. I would go months without hearing from my son and when I did it was because he wanted something from me, usually money. Now is the time for you to enjoy your life. You now have your new home so enjoy it. [/QUOTE]
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