Forums
New posts
Search forums
What's new
New posts
New profile posts
Latest activity
Internet Search
Members
Current visitors
New profile posts
Search profile posts
Log in
Register
What's new
Search
Search
Search titles only
By:
New posts
Search forums
Menu
Log in
Register
Install the app
Install
Forums
Parent Support Forums
Substance Abuse
Here we go again
JavaScript is disabled. For a better experience, please enable JavaScript in your browser before proceeding.
You are using an out of date browser. It may not display this or other websites correctly.
You should upgrade or use an
alternative browser
.
Reply to thread
Message
<blockquote data-quote="Sam3" data-source="post: 727253" data-attributes="member: 19290"><p>Nessie. </p><p></p><p>Your instincts are probably right. </p><p></p><p>Maybe it would be helpful to step back a little and think about whether you should be on pins and needles in your home, or whether your son’s dark cloud should hang over your daughter’s birthday. </p><p></p><p>For me, that little effort to take a birds eye view helps to keep things clearer for me. Not easier, necessarily, because it is not easy to set boundaries after things have become so skewed. But I am much less unsure.</p><p></p><p>The earth is round again and gravity works. </p><p></p><p>My son has been unstable and destabilizing. I will be here for him when or as long as he is trying to get traction.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Sam3, post: 727253, member: 19290"] Nessie. Your instincts are probably right. Maybe it would be helpful to step back a little and think about whether you should be on pins and needles in your home, or whether your son’s dark cloud should hang over your daughter’s birthday. For me, that little effort to take a birds eye view helps to keep things clearer for me. Not easier, necessarily, because it is not easy to set boundaries after things have become so skewed. But I am much less unsure. The earth is round again and gravity works. My son has been unstable and destabilizing. I will be here for him when or as long as he is trying to get traction. [/QUOTE]
Insert quotes…
Verification
Post reply
Forums
Parent Support Forums
Substance Abuse
Here we go again
Top