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<blockquote data-quote="Albatross" data-source="post: 724045" data-attributes="member: 17720"><p>Hello, Adaly, and welcome</p><p></p><p>Goodness, how you have been thru the wringer. I am sorry you are in in right now but glad you found us.</p><p></p><p>The first thing that hit me after I read your post is that there is absolutely no point in arguing with someone who is in the grips of addiction. It either ends badly, or...if it doesn't, the things you say don't matter because they were high when it happened and that doesn't count.</p><p></p><p>The bottom line is that you DON"T need to put up with that.</p><p></p><p>My personal opinion is that if he ever quits using long enough to see things more clearly, you MIGHT want to try to re-establish a relationship. If he doesn't, there's really no point in doing so.</p><p></p><p>The addict is not your son, but your son won't realize that until he sees where the addict will lead him. The less you interfere with that learning process, the faster your son will see that.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Albatross, post: 724045, member: 17720"] Hello, Adaly, and welcome Goodness, how you have been thru the wringer. I am sorry you are in in right now but glad you found us. The first thing that hit me after I read your post is that there is absolutely no point in arguing with someone who is in the grips of addiction. It either ends badly, or...if it doesn't, the things you say don't matter because they were high when it happened and that doesn't count. The bottom line is that you DON"T need to put up with that. My personal opinion is that if he ever quits using long enough to see things more clearly, you MIGHT want to try to re-establish a relationship. If he doesn't, there's really no point in doing so. The addict is not your son, but your son won't realize that until he sees where the addict will lead him. The less you interfere with that learning process, the faster your son will see that. [/QUOTE]
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