My friends all talk about their kids in college, doing so well, and how proud they are, and plans for the future.....I can't listen to this for another second, I never share a thing about difficult child- he is so far out of touch with being a normal member of society.
He was a violent person, and hasn't lived here for awhile now. husband got him the BEST job in the world- for him- a union carpenter. That's what husband does for a living, he's a foreman and tried to show difficult child the ropes. But difficult child doesn't like to work and won't. So, husband had to fire him, difficult child was talking back, cursing at husband, who is a repected individual. husband had no choice. difficult child could work he could call the union hall, and most likely be working tomorrow. No, no, no.... difficult child gets unemployment and won't even call to get work. That will run out and right now difficult child takes all those checks, and parties the entire thing away. He couldn't pay rent, he rented a room, he tries to BS everyone, so now he lives in someone's dorm room, for now, until the person get's how he's being used and gets rid of difficult child. He doesn't care about the next second-only this one.
Well, he gets his mail here, I never open it. Ever. But, yesterday something came from the bank and I thought it was ours, as the name wasn't showing through the window. It was difficult child's- he has been writing bad checks all over town and owes the bank $388 JUST in fees- every bounced check is $35, PLUS the cost of the check. He has no way to pay this. One check was for $4!!!! He owes every person he knows money, he's a great con.
I have detatched, really, I never speak to him about any of this-husband does- every time they talk I tell husband, "everything difficult child just said was a total lie, you know". because is ALWAYS is!!! I am brokenhearted that my son doesn't work, doesn't plan to, and can't hold a job- the boss is always a jerk for expecting difficult child to show up. difficult child actually said, how can I work? I'm hungover, and just sat there at husband's job!
This dorm thing will only last a few days and then he's homeless, basically. When he comes here (not often), I give him dinner and talk about the weather. I can't listen to crazy lies.-Alyssa
He was a violent person, and hasn't lived here for awhile now. husband got him the BEST job in the world- for him- a union carpenter. That's what husband does for a living, he's a foreman and tried to show difficult child the ropes. But difficult child doesn't like to work and won't. So, husband had to fire him, difficult child was talking back, cursing at husband, who is a repected individual. husband had no choice. difficult child could work he could call the union hall, and most likely be working tomorrow. No, no, no.... difficult child gets unemployment and won't even call to get work. That will run out and right now difficult child takes all those checks, and parties the entire thing away. He couldn't pay rent, he rented a room, he tries to BS everyone, so now he lives in someone's dorm room, for now, until the person get's how he's being used and gets rid of difficult child. He doesn't care about the next second-only this one.
Well, he gets his mail here, I never open it. Ever. But, yesterday something came from the bank and I thought it was ours, as the name wasn't showing through the window. It was difficult child's- he has been writing bad checks all over town and owes the bank $388 JUST in fees- every bounced check is $35, PLUS the cost of the check. He has no way to pay this. One check was for $4!!!! He owes every person he knows money, he's a great con.
I have detatched, really, I never speak to him about any of this-husband does- every time they talk I tell husband, "everything difficult child just said was a total lie, you know". because is ALWAYS is!!! I am brokenhearted that my son doesn't work, doesn't plan to, and can't hold a job- the boss is always a jerk for expecting difficult child to show up. difficult child actually said, how can I work? I'm hungover, and just sat there at husband's job!
This dorm thing will only last a few days and then he's homeless, basically. When he comes here (not often), I give him dinner and talk about the weather. I can't listen to crazy lies.-Alyssa
