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<blockquote data-quote="Childofmine" data-source="post: 636001" data-attributes="member: 17542"><p>BG I am sorry that this news has you in a tailspin and I understand. As you well know, you cannot control what he does. He is spinning and he will find a way to spin until he decides to stop or until he is stopped. </p><p></p><p>If you can----let go. Just let go. </p><p></p><p>Take a deep breath and turn your focus back to yourself. Don't waste any more time talking to girlfriend's mother or your ex.</p><p></p><p>Go to Australia. Just get physically away and let go of whatever is happening back home.</p><p></p><p>You are the most important person in this story. Your story. Your life. </p><p></p><p>Your son has his life to live and it sounds very much like it will play out soon----without any involvement from you.</p><p></p><p>You didn't cause it. You can't control it. You can't cure it.</p><p></p><p>Let go BG and get back to your own life. </p><p></p><p>Your son is right where he is due to his own choices and nothing will change until he decides he wants to change. </p><p></p><p>Warm hugs. Go! You deserve the best.</p><p></p><p></p><p>Sent using ConductDisorders mobile app</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Childofmine, post: 636001, member: 17542"] BG I am sorry that this news has you in a tailspin and I understand. As you well know, you cannot control what he does. He is spinning and he will find a way to spin until he decides to stop or until he is stopped. If you can----let go. Just let go. Take a deep breath and turn your focus back to yourself. Don't waste any more time talking to girlfriend's mother or your ex. Go to Australia. Just get physically away and let go of whatever is happening back home. You are the most important person in this story. Your story. Your life. Your son has his life to live and it sounds very much like it will play out soon----without any involvement from you. You didn't cause it. You can't control it. You can't cure it. Let go BG and get back to your own life. Your son is right where he is due to his own choices and nothing will change until he decides he wants to change. Warm hugs. Go! You deserve the best. Sent using ConductDisorders mobile app [/QUOTE]
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