Forums
New posts
Search forums
What's new
New posts
New profile posts
Latest activity
Internet Search
Members
Current visitors
New profile posts
Search profile posts
Log in
Register
What's new
Search
Search
Search titles only
By:
New posts
Search forums
Menu
Log in
Register
Install the app
Install
Forums
Parent Support Forums
Parent Emeritus
He's not going to the wedding with us
JavaScript is disabled. For a better experience, please enable JavaScript in your browser before proceeding.
You are using an out of date browser. It may not display this or other websites correctly.
You should upgrade or use an
alternative browser
.
Reply to thread
Message
<blockquote data-quote="TerryJ2" data-source="post: 667199" data-attributes="member: 3419"><p>We're back.</p><p>It turned out very well that he stayed home.</p><p>Two of my sisters never even asked where he was. Hmm.</p><p>I'm wondering if my little sister blabbed.</p><p>I told my s-i-l and my uncle that Difficult Child had a meltdown and that at this time of yr, he always freaks out and his anxiety goes through the roof. (I'll never forget the Labor Day he spent in the psychiatric hospital.) They know he's a little different so we left it at that.</p><p></p><p>He calmed down, recovered from his cold (now I have a cold <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite3" alt=":(" title="Frown :(" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":(" /> ) and the house was clean when we got back. </p><p>I hired a pet sitter for 3 visits a day, and that way knew that someone would always be checking on him and he would be checking on her. Trust and verify. <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /></p><p>I traded in his little bike for a bigger one and the total was $100 for a used bike with-26" wheels. He can ride it to work when he gets a job. He thanked me profusely.</p><p>He did notice that it was old and commented on it and I told him that once he started to make money, he could trade up for a better one. He said he'd rather save money for a car. <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /></p><p>I think I'll buy a light for it because he won't think to do that. I gave it to him as a "gift." </p><p></p><p>Bmom didn't call him back. He didn't meet up with her.</p><p>They're both flakes. Sigh.</p><p>I will set it up because I really want her to hear what he has to say, and vice versa.</p><p>We usually get together at Christmas but for several yrs, she was a no-show and said she was sick. She's been better in the last 2 yrs. I don't want to discuss serious issues at Christmas so I want this over with. Maybe it will help. </p><p></p><p>He went back to school yesterday. I have no idea if he will graduate or get a GED. All I can do is watch. </p><p></p><p>I'll bet dollars to donuts that he will break up with-H soon. She will not want to tolerate discussion of the baby and old girlfriend, and will probably meet someone in her new jr college anyway. They've been fighting a lot.</p><p>We'll see...</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="TerryJ2, post: 667199, member: 3419"] We're back. It turned out very well that he stayed home. Two of my sisters never even asked where he was. Hmm. I'm wondering if my little sister blabbed. I told my s-i-l and my uncle that Difficult Child had a meltdown and that at this time of yr, he always freaks out and his anxiety goes through the roof. (I'll never forget the Labor Day he spent in the psychiatric hospital.) They know he's a little different so we left it at that. He calmed down, recovered from his cold (now I have a cold :( ) and the house was clean when we got back. I hired a pet sitter for 3 visits a day, and that way knew that someone would always be checking on him and he would be checking on her. Trust and verify. :) I traded in his little bike for a bigger one and the total was $100 for a used bike with-26" wheels. He can ride it to work when he gets a job. He thanked me profusely. He did notice that it was old and commented on it and I told him that once he started to make money, he could trade up for a better one. He said he'd rather save money for a car. :) I think I'll buy a light for it because he won't think to do that. I gave it to him as a "gift." Bmom didn't call him back. He didn't meet up with her. They're both flakes. Sigh. I will set it up because I really want her to hear what he has to say, and vice versa. We usually get together at Christmas but for several yrs, she was a no-show and said she was sick. She's been better in the last 2 yrs. I don't want to discuss serious issues at Christmas so I want this over with. Maybe it will help. He went back to school yesterday. I have no idea if he will graduate or get a GED. All I can do is watch. I'll bet dollars to donuts that he will break up with-H soon. She will not want to tolerate discussion of the baby and old girlfriend, and will probably meet someone in her new jr college anyway. They've been fighting a lot. We'll see... [/QUOTE]
Insert quotes…
Verification
Post reply
Forums
Parent Support Forums
Parent Emeritus
He's not going to the wedding with us
Top