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He's soooo stubborn! Fade in Frank Sinatra's "My Way"
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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 663505" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>I didn't see this.</p><p></p><p>Terry, you need to stand up to him, hon, or he will NEVER grow up. You in my opinion are way too much a part of his life, still trying to manage him when he is not going to listen to you. At the same time, you are still usually giving in to anything he wants. He s hould not sleep with anybody under your roof! A BABY IS ON THE WAY! That's how I see it...could be wrong.</p><p></p><p>JMO, but he should NEVER get your car. He uses drugs and drinks! He shouldn't get anything that you have to pay for. in my opinion he shouldn't even still be at home. He is disrespecting you and everything you stand for, is not at all concerned about the baby (he will likely be that deadbeat dad who is absent, and the only thing that will make him man up is to have to live on his own. You can't make him do it. He has to want it and he doesn't.</p><p></p><p>Sometimes the best t hing we can do is to let go and let whatever happens happen because our involvement doesn't help them and it hurts us. He is not so mentally ill that he can't find the drugs or get women pregnant. He can make up very good excuses for his behavior. He is not psychotic in any way. He is conniving. Watch out. This second girl may also show up pregnant.</p><p></p><p>If he were my son, I'd wash my hands of the nonsense and (yes, it is so hard) but his behavior and growing up index are deteriorating while he is at home. He's old enough to fight for our country. He's old enough to find a place to live, a job, or suffer the consequences of refusing to be productive.</p><p></p><p>I'm so sorry you have to see this and live through it and I hope you can stand strong against it.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 663505, member: 1550"] I didn't see this. Terry, you need to stand up to him, hon, or he will NEVER grow up. You in my opinion are way too much a part of his life, still trying to manage him when he is not going to listen to you. At the same time, you are still usually giving in to anything he wants. He s hould not sleep with anybody under your roof! A BABY IS ON THE WAY! That's how I see it...could be wrong. JMO, but he should NEVER get your car. He uses drugs and drinks! He shouldn't get anything that you have to pay for. in my opinion he shouldn't even still be at home. He is disrespecting you and everything you stand for, is not at all concerned about the baby (he will likely be that deadbeat dad who is absent, and the only thing that will make him man up is to have to live on his own. You can't make him do it. He has to want it and he doesn't. Sometimes the best t hing we can do is to let go and let whatever happens happen because our involvement doesn't help them and it hurts us. He is not so mentally ill that he can't find the drugs or get women pregnant. He can make up very good excuses for his behavior. He is not psychotic in any way. He is conniving. Watch out. This second girl may also show up pregnant. If he were my son, I'd wash my hands of the nonsense and (yes, it is so hard) but his behavior and growing up index are deteriorating while he is at home. He's old enough to fight for our country. He's old enough to find a place to live, a job, or suffer the consequences of refusing to be productive. I'm so sorry you have to see this and live through it and I hope you can stand strong against it. [/QUOTE]
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