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Hey, Cedar, or anyone interested in FOO (Family of Origin) issues. Cedar, WHY NOW???
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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 657037" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>As usual, your post was so profound and most of it rang so true.</p><p></p><p>The only comment I have is that I know my mother hated me because she said so with the disinheritance. That is pure hate. It SAYS hate. There is no other reason for doing it. She knew how it would make me feel. My God, if her mother had disinherited her, I think she would have stabbed herself. She was not strong. She knew so I know. In a way it's a relief not to have to guess.</p><p></p><p>Sometimes it makes sense. The child stole. The child was given tons of money. Another child was very needy and one is well off. None of these situations were true. She did it to tell me just how little I mattered to her.</p><p></p><p>"When I was pregnant with you, I felt nothing for you."</p><p></p><p>"When I held you in my arms as a baby, I felt nothing."</p><p></p><p>This says it all.</p><p></p><p>Whatever.</p><p></p><p>The topic emotionally drains me so I need to reboot right now <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /> But it is good for me to gain this understanding that I wouldn't allow myself to see before. In the end, it will allow me...and you too...to put this behind us.</p><p></p><p>I am still standing with a loving family, E.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 657037, member: 1550"] As usual, your post was so profound and most of it rang so true. The only comment I have is that I know my mother hated me because she said so with the disinheritance. That is pure hate. It SAYS hate. There is no other reason for doing it. She knew how it would make me feel. My God, if her mother had disinherited her, I think she would have stabbed herself. She was not strong. She knew so I know. In a way it's a relief not to have to guess. Sometimes it makes sense. The child stole. The child was given tons of money. Another child was very needy and one is well off. None of these situations were true. She did it to tell me just how little I mattered to her. "When I was pregnant with you, I felt nothing for you." "When I held you in my arms as a baby, I felt nothing." This says it all. Whatever. The topic emotionally drains me so I need to reboot right now :) But it is good for me to gain this understanding that I wouldn't allow myself to see before. In the end, it will allow me...and you too...to put this behind us. I am still standing with a loving family, E. [/QUOTE]
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