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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 683077" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>I assume you are not living in the U.S? If so, you can seek eviction if she is 18. Unless you left out details, there is no reason why you can't evict her in the U.S. Try a better lawyer. Again, I don't know the entire situation. Did you once let her have the house to herself? In the U.S. you can evict. That's what makes me think you're not in the U.S.</p><p></p><p>A heart attack at 43? Although I'm not sure anyone can trace t hat directly to your daughter, that is not good. Sounds like the family is being overly controlled by her.</p><p></p><p>I have no idea where you live or what your laws are, but if t his were me, and I absolutely had to do it due to impossible laws, I'd leave the house and let her pay for it and, although I'm not rich, let the house go under if it had to...rather than live to die in that environment or leave the house to her control and still pay the bills. I'm not one to pay an adult child's bills especially when they are bullying me. Now, this is simply my own possible idea of what I think I'd do because I am not good with chaos and would be worried about the rest of my family. However, for you it may not be possible you should take whatever anybody says that is useful and disregard the rest. We are simply other parents telling you what worked or did not work for us. Or they are our opinions, which may or may not work for you.</p><p></p><p>If you live outside t he U.S. and are able to state where you do live, it may be helpful as we do have members who live outside t he U.S. and Canada, but most of us are there.</p><p></p><p>I'm so sorry for your grief.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 683077, member: 1550"] I assume you are not living in the U.S? If so, you can seek eviction if she is 18. Unless you left out details, there is no reason why you can't evict her in the U.S. Try a better lawyer. Again, I don't know the entire situation. Did you once let her have the house to herself? In the U.S. you can evict. That's what makes me think you're not in the U.S. A heart attack at 43? Although I'm not sure anyone can trace t hat directly to your daughter, that is not good. Sounds like the family is being overly controlled by her. I have no idea where you live or what your laws are, but if t his were me, and I absolutely had to do it due to impossible laws, I'd leave the house and let her pay for it and, although I'm not rich, let the house go under if it had to...rather than live to die in that environment or leave the house to her control and still pay the bills. I'm not one to pay an adult child's bills especially when they are bullying me. Now, this is simply my own possible idea of what I think I'd do because I am not good with chaos and would be worried about the rest of my family. However, for you it may not be possible you should take whatever anybody says that is useful and disregard the rest. We are simply other parents telling you what worked or did not work for us. Or they are our opinions, which may or may not work for you. If you live outside t he U.S. and are able to state where you do live, it may be helpful as we do have members who live outside t he U.S. and Canada, but most of us are there. I'm so sorry for your grief. [/QUOTE]
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