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<blockquote data-quote="Tanya M" data-source="post: 747561" data-attributes="member: 18516"><p>Hi CSH, I'm so glad you found us here but sorry you had to. Thank you for posting and sharing your story.</p><p></p><p></p><p>Just because you have the money does not mean you are under any obligation to give it. I too have the money but where my son is concerned, the ATM is out of order. I've spent plenty trying to help my son and I have nothing to show for it but a debit in my bank account.</p><p>Trust me, if money and love could solve our difficult adult children's problems there would be no need for this site.</p><p></p><p></p><p>I'm glad he's in the hospital and I do hope he will really give rehab a chance.</p><p></p><p></p><p>I know exactly how you feel. I do love my son but I do not like him. I do not like the person he has turned into.</p><p></p><p></p><p>You are not alone. I'm so glad you are here with us now. This forum has been a life saver for me. I had no idea just how many parents like us there are.</p><p></p><p>You are doing the right thing by detaching from your son. Detaching does not mean that we don't love them, it just means that we will no longer allow them to hold our emotions hostage.</p><p></p><p>Be very good to yourself. Self care is VITAL!!</p><p></p><p>((HUGS)) to you................</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Tanya M, post: 747561, member: 18516"] Hi CSH, I'm so glad you found us here but sorry you had to. Thank you for posting and sharing your story. Just because you have the money does not mean you are under any obligation to give it. I too have the money but where my son is concerned, the ATM is out of order. I've spent plenty trying to help my son and I have nothing to show for it but a debit in my bank account. Trust me, if money and love could solve our difficult adult children's problems there would be no need for this site. I'm glad he's in the hospital and I do hope he will really give rehab a chance. I know exactly how you feel. I do love my son but I do not like him. I do not like the person he has turned into. You are not alone. I'm so glad you are here with us now. This forum has been a life saver for me. I had no idea just how many parents like us there are. You are doing the right thing by detaching from your son. Detaching does not mean that we don't love them, it just means that we will no longer allow them to hold our emotions hostage. Be very good to yourself. Self care is VITAL!! ((HUGS)) to you................ [/QUOTE]
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