I am a mother of 3 boys and 1 daughter. My oldest son is 14. My other children are daughter-age 12, DS age 9 and DS age 5. I just found out that my 14 yo attempted to engage DS age 5 in a sexual act. DS refused and went and told dad right away...thank goodness. 14 yo DS lied at first, but then admitted to what he was trying to do. He has always shown signs of ODD and ADHD. The past 2 years have been really great though, and I thought we were through the thick of it. We have had periods of him looking at porn at home (but then we did parental controls..) then looking at porn at other people's homes. We talked to our other children, each in private and there seems to be no other instances like this. I just don't know what to do. I'm scared for any damage he may have done to his little brother..just by saying the things he said to him. I'm also scared for my 14 year old. He's been through behavioral therapy before...now this? We are headed to the doctor's tomorrow to find out about therapy. I'm just scared, and feeling horrible.