Hi maryellen. I noticed your post on jennifer's "Ok I give..." post and thought I'd say hi. You'll probaby get more replies if you start a new post of your own. Or maybe a moderater can move your posts from that thread to a new one. I'm just off to bed soon, and too tired to offer any kind of advice, so just saying welcome, and hope you can get find some advice, or even just a place to vent to those who understand and don't judge 'cause we've all been there done that.