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hi - New Here, son just put in Residential Treatment Center (RTC), will things ever get better?
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<blockquote data-quote="Copabanana" data-source="post: 675513" data-attributes="member: 18958"><p>Pisces, I was alone with this for years. We had a therapist, but I was alone. I kept trying and trying.</p><p></p><p>Only with this site did I realize, really get, that it is not about me trying. It is him.</p><p></p><p>My son when he is here in our house calls the police on us to get us arrested. Many times. You would think I would have caught a clue. But no. It had to happen a number of times before I realized I did not have to tolerate it.</p><p></p><p>He has given my SO a black eye and pinned him on the floor. I think years ago he may have pushed me, but I am blacking it out.</p><p></p><p>When he was 18 he used a defensive martial arts move against me and he broke my foot. That I did remember. The worst part of it was we were living in Brazil, I was dancing. I wanted to continue. I had to leave. With a broken foot, I tried to dance but could not. It brought to an end one of the best parts of my life.</p><p></p><p>I accept it. Now.</p><p></p><p>Believe me. There is nothing we have not heard. We have all lived some version of what you are living, what you are feeling. You are by no means alone.</p><p></p><p>I am going to lie down now. And turn off the computer. Others will be be here soon. I will check in with you here later or tomorrow morning. I am so glad you are here.</p><p></p><p>You will be fine. Trust me. I know. I feel like I have gotten a brain transplant. Do something realize nice for yourself right now. I am going to finish the best mystery I am reading. In bed.</p><p></p><p>COPA</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Copabanana, post: 675513, member: 18958"] Pisces, I was alone with this for years. We had a therapist, but I was alone. I kept trying and trying. Only with this site did I realize, really get, that it is not about me trying. It is him. My son when he is here in our house calls the police on us to get us arrested. Many times. You would think I would have caught a clue. But no. It had to happen a number of times before I realized I did not have to tolerate it. He has given my SO a black eye and pinned him on the floor. I think years ago he may have pushed me, but I am blacking it out. When he was 18 he used a defensive martial arts move against me and he broke my foot. That I did remember. The worst part of it was we were living in Brazil, I was dancing. I wanted to continue. I had to leave. With a broken foot, I tried to dance but could not. It brought to an end one of the best parts of my life. I accept it. Now. Believe me. There is nothing we have not heard. We have all lived some version of what you are living, what you are feeling. You are by no means alone. I am going to lie down now. And turn off the computer. Others will be be here soon. I will check in with you here later or tomorrow morning. I am so glad you are here. You will be fine. Trust me. I know. I feel like I have gotten a brain transplant. Do something realize nice for yourself right now. I am going to finish the best mystery I am reading. In bed. COPA [/QUOTE]
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