I have just found our my 12 year old son has ODD/ADHD. I have been so frustrated with him and never knew what to do. I had placed in him therapy cause he bio dad had been arrested May of last year and thought he needed to talk about it, in the mean time Zack got himself in trouble at school by writing a "Hit List" and was placed on Probabtion of 6 months. His first therapist was leaving and I had to find someone else and after much searching I found a wonderful guy who right away tested Zack, (the other one never did). I am relived for answer but mad and upset for it not being found earlier. I am not sure what I do from here but it is very hard to deal with. I am remarried (8years) to a wonderful man who has been more of a "dad" to zack then his own dad (who is currently in rehab. I also have a 3 year old daughter who has Cystic Fibrosis, so needless to say my hands are full. I'm going to browse around and looking forward to talking with you all.