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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 706634" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>As sick as this would make me, I have learned not to push moral issues that can't be prosecuted or proven to the back. There are a few problems here. You were eavesdropping on a private session, itself not really morally sound. The therapist is a mandatory reporter. If there is anything legally wrong, the therapist will report it.</p><p></p><p>Through the years I have told my therapists things nobody else knew and if my family had listened in, I would have felt deeply betrayed by who ever listened in. Deeply</p><p> Maybe our relationship would never heal or maybe I'd quit therapy and he needs it and needs to feel it is between him and the therapist. No matter your mother outrage your son is legally a man now.</p><p></p><p> I feel this is his issue to work out with his therapist. This was actually none of your business. That's kind of what you get for listening in. No offense meant but I've been in therapy and would have felt violated if anyone had listened in. It is supposed to be a safe place to admit our worst. Mom is not supposed to listen.</p><p></p><p>I would not confront anyone. Like Jabber said you can put a bug in principals ear but I wouldn't bring up Ferb or he will never trust you again. I expected anything I told my therapists to stay in that room.</p><p></p><p>In the end, what you did was also wrong. Let Ferb figure it out himself. Our moral outrages don't work and can cause more problems than they solve. He will learn better from natural consequences than because Mom breached his very private session. If you found out a different way...it would be different.but it is what it is.</p><p></p><p>And please go somewhere else if you can hear his therapy sessions from now on. Hey, I understand your angst and even listening in and I don't judge you. You are a great person. I love animals...there is something special about a person who missed having pigs (I get it lol). But I do think you are kind of in a bad spot here and I'm sorry. Id be fuming inside if this were me.</p><p></p><p>Love and hugs.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 706634, member: 1550"] As sick as this would make me, I have learned not to push moral issues that can't be prosecuted or proven to the back. There are a few problems here. You were eavesdropping on a private session, itself not really morally sound. The therapist is a mandatory reporter. If there is anything legally wrong, the therapist will report it. Through the years I have told my therapists things nobody else knew and if my family had listened in, I would have felt deeply betrayed by who ever listened in. Deeply Maybe our relationship would never heal or maybe I'd quit therapy and he needs it and needs to feel it is between him and the therapist. No matter your mother outrage your son is legally a man now. I feel this is his issue to work out with his therapist. This was actually none of your business. That's kind of what you get for listening in. No offense meant but I've been in therapy and would have felt violated if anyone had listened in. It is supposed to be a safe place to admit our worst. Mom is not supposed to listen. I would not confront anyone. Like Jabber said you can put a bug in principals ear but I wouldn't bring up Ferb or he will never trust you again. I expected anything I told my therapists to stay in that room. In the end, what you did was also wrong. Let Ferb figure it out himself. Our moral outrages don't work and can cause more problems than they solve. He will learn better from natural consequences than because Mom breached his very private session. If you found out a different way...it would be different.but it is what it is. And please go somewhere else if you can hear his therapy sessions from now on. Hey, I understand your angst and even listening in and I don't judge you. You are a great person. I love animals...there is something special about a person who missed having pigs (I get it lol). But I do think you are kind of in a bad spot here and I'm sorry. Id be fuming inside if this were me. Love and hugs. [/QUOTE]
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