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<blockquote data-quote="susiestar" data-source="post: 706641" data-attributes="member: 1233"><p>In my state wht she is doing is statutory rape if they have a physical relationship, even if he is over 18. It is because she is or was his teacher. This means his therapist is a mandatory reporter and will report it if this is the case in your state. Many states are changing the laws to include this because it is a person in power over another vulnerable person. </p><p></p><p>You need to either tell Ferb you heard this, or let it go. If you are going to do anything, first go into a session with Ferb and the therapist and tell them what you heard. Ferb is going to feel very betrayed and you will have to work through this with him. Is he strong enough to handle this right now? You have to weigh this. Only after doing that could you really do anything. </p><p></p><p>I guess you could send a letter to the principal or superintendent anonymously telling them to watch this teacher because she has inappropriate relationships with students, but other than that, well, there isn't much you can do other than letting it go.</p><p></p><p>I think this will run its course and you would be best off doing nothing. You have a very fragile son right now and I don't know if he is strong enough to face the challenges of having you know about this, much less having you bring this to light and having the woman he thinks he loves deal with the consequences of this relationship. </p><p></p><p>I am sorry. I doubt anything good will come of this. Let the therapist handle this for now.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="susiestar, post: 706641, member: 1233"] In my state wht she is doing is statutory rape if they have a physical relationship, even if he is over 18. It is because she is or was his teacher. This means his therapist is a mandatory reporter and will report it if this is the case in your state. Many states are changing the laws to include this because it is a person in power over another vulnerable person. You need to either tell Ferb you heard this, or let it go. If you are going to do anything, first go into a session with Ferb and the therapist and tell them what you heard. Ferb is going to feel very betrayed and you will have to work through this with him. Is he strong enough to handle this right now? You have to weigh this. Only after doing that could you really do anything. I guess you could send a letter to the principal or superintendent anonymously telling them to watch this teacher because she has inappropriate relationships with students, but other than that, well, there isn't much you can do other than letting it go. I think this will run its course and you would be best off doing nothing. You have a very fragile son right now and I don't know if he is strong enough to face the challenges of having you know about this, much less having you bring this to light and having the woman he thinks he loves deal with the consequences of this relationship. I am sorry. I doubt anything good will come of this. Let the therapist handle this for now. [/QUOTE]
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