I'm in!
(Does that mean that I just volunteered to coordinate?
)
Sadandfrustrated, yes, the coordinator compiles a private list, either through pm's on this board, or emails. We exchange cards. It's fun. Some people send photos, and some people prefer to remain anonymous. Some even make handmade cards.
It's totally up to each person's discretion.
After the exchange, the idea is to rip up the list so that confidentiality is maintained.