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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 704896" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>Are you positive she filed? Would she know how to do it?</p><p></p><p>They tested me and also saw all my records and work history within the previous five years. You do have to prove it.</p><p></p><p>Antisocial is Cluster B. Wow. Your father. I'm sorry. I am sure my father is Narcicistic. You can't really talk to him unless he is the topic and he is disinterested in anything except having ladies like him and being admired and he has said awful things to me and doesn't think he is wrong. Ever. About anything. Apologies? They are only for other people.</p><p></p><p> He is a difficult father...lol. Not close to any of us. Ashamed, really, because he feels he can't brag about us. This can run in families. I see these traits in my oldest son. Exactly the same except his does love his son, at least now that his son is little and still adores him.</p><p></p><p>Borderline is Cluster B too and the most common Cluster B personality disorder in females. All three personality disordered people are unpleasant to interact with and they all lack caring for others and empathy, are drama queens or kings, and have mood swings and rages if they think you done them wrong.</p><p></p><p>Revenge is a big part of what they do as well as cutting off people who love them in order to to punish and hurt them often for reasons we do not understand.</p><p></p><p> Appealing to their emotions doesn't change anything because they only feel angry emotions and only act loving when they are being pleased or are manipulating us into giving them something. Then They turn on us if we say no.</p><p></p><p> They tend not to go to therapy ("there's nothing wrong with me, it's everyone else") and the success rate in therapy is not good anyway. They often get offended and leave.</p><p></p><p>I see a lot of these behaviors described with our difficult children on this forum. It breaks my heart. I know how it feels to be on the receiving end. And to hope for change and not see it. Never see it.</p><p></p><p>I am sorry that you are sad. I once was too but I understand more now and don't try to read on with unreasonable people. Good vibes out to You! You can't have a discussion that leads anywhere if the person is sure he/she is right and we are just being insulting.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 704896, member: 1550"] Are you positive she filed? Would she know how to do it? They tested me and also saw all my records and work history within the previous five years. You do have to prove it. Antisocial is Cluster B. Wow. Your father. I'm sorry. I am sure my father is Narcicistic. You can't really talk to him unless he is the topic and he is disinterested in anything except having ladies like him and being admired and he has said awful things to me and doesn't think he is wrong. Ever. About anything. Apologies? They are only for other people. He is a difficult father...lol. Not close to any of us. Ashamed, really, because he feels he can't brag about us. This can run in families. I see these traits in my oldest son. Exactly the same except his does love his son, at least now that his son is little and still adores him. Borderline is Cluster B too and the most common Cluster B personality disorder in females. All three personality disordered people are unpleasant to interact with and they all lack caring for others and empathy, are drama queens or kings, and have mood swings and rages if they think you done them wrong. Revenge is a big part of what they do as well as cutting off people who love them in order to to punish and hurt them often for reasons we do not understand. Appealing to their emotions doesn't change anything because they only feel angry emotions and only act loving when they are being pleased or are manipulating us into giving them something. Then They turn on us if we say no. They tend not to go to therapy ("there's nothing wrong with me, it's everyone else") and the success rate in therapy is not good anyway. They often get offended and leave. I see a lot of these behaviors described with our difficult children on this forum. It breaks my heart. I know how it feels to be on the receiving end. And to hope for change and not see it. Never see it. I am sorry that you are sad. I once was too but I understand more now and don't try to read on with unreasonable people. Good vibes out to You! You can't have a discussion that leads anywhere if the person is sure he/she is right and we are just being insulting. [/QUOTE]
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