troubledheart
New Member
Here is a good one. My husband and I went on vacation the week before the Christmas holiday. I sent my son (against his wishes, first mistake) to see his bio dad for 5 days.
Next thing I know, I am getting a phone call that the police were called on myself and husband because my AS kiddo decided to tell his bio dad that we abuse him. Punching, kicking, hitting, you name it, he said it. Loaded guns in our home, thinking we would use them to shoot him, etc. You can imagine my surprise on that phone call, it is outlandish and unreal to me that my AS kiddo would say that, let alone bio dad would believe him!! AND all of this without contacting me until after he had called the police. Needless to say, AS Kiddo admitted to bio dad that he made it all up because he wanted to go back with me. He thought it would make everyone mad and I would go get him.
Now I don't know what else to do. We have talked with him, the police have been to speak with us, and is sending a report to CPS, and I have no clue what happens now. My AS kiddo talked to cops and told him he lied and why and they had a discussion on lying to get your way.
I am definately talking to therapist on this one. Hopefully all will go okay when cps talks to us. I have all his diagnosis paperwork and doctor phone numbers, etc ready.....
Has anyone went thru this????? I am super stressed out!
Next thing I know, I am getting a phone call that the police were called on myself and husband because my AS kiddo decided to tell his bio dad that we abuse him. Punching, kicking, hitting, you name it, he said it. Loaded guns in our home, thinking we would use them to shoot him, etc. You can imagine my surprise on that phone call, it is outlandish and unreal to me that my AS kiddo would say that, let alone bio dad would believe him!! AND all of this without contacting me until after he had called the police. Needless to say, AS Kiddo admitted to bio dad that he made it all up because he wanted to go back with me. He thought it would make everyone mad and I would go get him.
Now I don't know what else to do. We have talked with him, the police have been to speak with us, and is sending a report to CPS, and I have no clue what happens now. My AS kiddo talked to cops and told him he lied and why and they had a discussion on lying to get your way.
I am definately talking to therapist on this one. Hopefully all will go okay when cps talks to us. I have all his diagnosis paperwork and doctor phone numbers, etc ready.....
Has anyone went thru this????? I am super stressed out!