I'm happy cause my son's home!!!!! But OMG am I off at the 7+ weeks of brain washing my ex-AH of a sperm donor did. 1) 7 year old spent 7+ weeks sleeping on a mattress on the living room floor. When it was bedtime, my son told me "I was told roll over and face the wall." Ex-AH and his girlfriend didn't turn off the lights and exit the room, they continued to watch TV or whatever. 2) Ex-AH's girlfriend apparently chain smokes. My son is borderline asthmatic. 7+ weeks sucking in 2nd hand smoke without even a private room to retreat to. His clothes came back saturated with the smell. 3) 7 year old told his psychiatrist today that "I don't have AD/HD, my daddy told me so." 'nuff said. 4) 7 year old told me and his psychiatrist that "I don't want to take medication, my daddy told me it doesn't help and is a waste of his money." 5) 7 year old can talk about nothing but Transformers the movie - a PG 13 film with explicit violence. Great movie choice for a child with a concurrent diagnoses of ODD who likes to kick, bite, and headbutt. 6) I found a few dollars in the dryer, having escaped from my SO's jeans pocket. I joked aloud that my SO was now "paying me I guess to do his laundry." My son told me "stop being so greedy mommy, you're making daddy poor." Apparently ex-AH told my son that I'm so greedy that his daddy's having to pay me money and that's why his daddy is "poor." <insert discussion/education about child support at a 7 year old's level of comprehension> 7) And last but definitely not least, when asked what his favorite parts about the summer were, his first response was "Transformers" and second was "leaving <ex-AH's place of residence> to come home." AGGGGGGHHHHHHHH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!