Hi Family: We are home from our Honeymoon. We went to the Poconos to a Ceasar's resort, it was alot of fun The wedding service was beautiful and exceeded our expectations J's Baby Naming Ceremony was so uplifting that difficult child was moved to tears........literally. I must tell you all that difficult child is only 35 days, or so, sober. She dressed and conducted herself with grace and humor and intelligence. Keep in mind that my husbands' (that's the first time I'm writing it )family has accepted difficult child in the same total and complete way that they have accepted Baby J difficult child has never had unconditional love from alot of others before. I know it is doing her alot of good. She is far from "cured" or in "remmission", as in the case of an addict. I am proud of her. She seems more mature. Baby J has also survived the festivities, although he is way off his regular schedule and has had many changes over the last few months......He seems to be holding his own with only small, single moments of frustration or fussiness. Truly a Great baby, and I think he's been here before, if anyone believes in that( I Do). He seems like an old soul. Thank you for the cyber shower , I will print the responses and cherish them. Maybe now between work and the baby and my new marriage, I can finally come back here and have time to support you all. I will be here. You Guys are the best and very addictive. Blessings, Melissa P.S. Did I mention difficult child's Father is coming to visit us?