So, here I am trying to mind my own business but finding myself obsessing about my son and daughter again. For now, it appears that things have calmed down. Son is in process of getting settled in a new place (prison), daughter is not communicating a lot which indicates to me that something has taken her attention away (who knows what or who), but as soon as either of them need help guess who they will call? I went to get my son's clothes the other day from the county jail and found 10 lbs. of stuff. Now I am the keeper of the belongings for both of them. My daughter who is not in jail makes no effort to retrieve her stuff and is living in an apartment that has no furniture in it, despite her bed being 500 miles away in my garage. Go figure.