Well, we have decided to homeschool Tigger. He is doing an outstanding job with his schoolwork, he has self-started a unit on spiders because he is fascinated with them (we have tons in our backyard - thankfully he understands that he can't play with them!!). He is calmer and more socially appropriate in the afternoons/evenings when he plays with other kids. My mother (who is strongly against homeschooling) said she had to admit that since keeping him home, she saw a marked improvement and so did husband, who is not philosophically opposed to homeschooling but is concerned that I will get overwhelmed with my part-time job and homeschooling. It is just such a dramatic improvement that we can't ignore it. Any fellow homeschoolers out there - please let me know of any good homeschool sites/links. Thanks!!