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<blockquote data-quote="DoneDad" data-source="post: 747112" data-attributes="member: 17244"><p>Honeymoon Crisis Rescue - Rinse Repeat is daughter’s pattern we’ve been stuck in for the past 10 years. We’re now supposed to kick in to rescue mode. Boyfriend is abusive (shocker!). This is the seventh or eight one. </p><p></p><p>My ride on the crazy train is officially OVER. Wife rode to the rescue yesterday. I said no thanks. And don’t bring her here. </p><p></p><p>Doing the same thing over and over and expecting a different result is the definition of insanity. Constantly rescuing her isn’t helping her, and it definitely isn’t helping us. It just enables her to keep doing the same thing, over and over. While we pay for the consequences of her idiotic choices. No thank you. </p><p></p><p>She came over on Saturday supposedly to visit grandson (her son who we are raising). Spent the whole time on her phone ignoring him. He was really upset. He’s just now getting over it. I told wife future visits can be at the park or at a restaurant.</p><p></p><p>Next day (Sunday) was a giant crisis where we’re supposed to go get her. Nope. Not me. Wife went. I can only control myself. But I made it clear she can’t come here. I don’t want grandson to be affected by her BS. And I don’t want it in my space.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="DoneDad, post: 747112, member: 17244"] Honeymoon Crisis Rescue - Rinse Repeat is daughter’s pattern we’ve been stuck in for the past 10 years. We’re now supposed to kick in to rescue mode. Boyfriend is abusive (shocker!). This is the seventh or eight one. My ride on the crazy train is officially OVER. Wife rode to the rescue yesterday. I said no thanks. And don’t bring her here. Doing the same thing over and over and expecting a different result is the definition of insanity. Constantly rescuing her isn’t helping her, and it definitely isn’t helping us. It just enables her to keep doing the same thing, over and over. While we pay for the consequences of her idiotic choices. No thank you. She came over on Saturday supposedly to visit grandson (her son who we are raising). Spent the whole time on her phone ignoring him. He was really upset. He’s just now getting over it. I told wife future visits can be at the park or at a restaurant. Next day (Sunday) was a giant crisis where we’re supposed to go get her. Nope. Not me. Wife went. I can only control myself. But I made it clear she can’t come here. I don’t want grandson to be affected by her BS. And I don’t want it in my space. [/QUOTE]
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