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<blockquote data-quote="Weary Mother" data-source="post: 702840" data-attributes="member: 20487"><p>Tanya/Recoveringenabler and Somewhere out there: I thank you all for your input. I went to Tennessee on friday and just returned today. I admit I was irritated by his email and also at having to even be in this stupid situation. I did enjoy my time, and did not send an email, however this has a tendency to rattle me and even if only slightly, alter my feelings. I have seen him completely loose everything in his life, friends, jobs, family. When he got out the first time, he did not even have time for his dad or me, and blew off anyone not his girlfriend, who he spend all his time with. My mother who is now 84 used to be his proxy for food bank, and she would go stand in line (he was on house arrest and could not leave the house) and then take his food to him, and not even get invited in. We now know it was because he was making meth with the girlfriend and almost shut everyone out in the process. The horrible emails he used to send to me, his dad, or anyone while he was high were gut wrenching. He has had support of people only to tick them off by getting mad when we ask him to put into the relationship, care about others. I am trying to blow this off, it is taking time. I think your right, let him stew in his own juice.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Weary Mother, post: 702840, member: 20487"] Tanya/Recoveringenabler and Somewhere out there: I thank you all for your input. I went to Tennessee on friday and just returned today. I admit I was irritated by his email and also at having to even be in this stupid situation. I did enjoy my time, and did not send an email, however this has a tendency to rattle me and even if only slightly, alter my feelings. I have seen him completely loose everything in his life, friends, jobs, family. When he got out the first time, he did not even have time for his dad or me, and blew off anyone not his girlfriend, who he spend all his time with. My mother who is now 84 used to be his proxy for food bank, and she would go stand in line (he was on house arrest and could not leave the house) and then take his food to him, and not even get invited in. We now know it was because he was making meth with the girlfriend and almost shut everyone out in the process. The horrible emails he used to send to me, his dad, or anyone while he was high were gut wrenching. He has had support of people only to tick them off by getting mad when we ask him to put into the relationship, care about others. I am trying to blow this off, it is taking time. I think your right, let him stew in his own juice. [/QUOTE]
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