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<blockquote data-quote="toughlovin" data-source="post: 625426" data-attributes="member: 15801"><p>The only way contracts worked for us was to set up a list of requirements and consequence if they werent followed.... and then when the rules were not folflowed the consequence was clearly laid out and he knew exactly why the consequence happened.</p><p></p><p>When he was 14 we had him sign a contract that if he got in trouble with the law or school he would willingly go to a wilderness program. It took him 4 days to have both happen and so then he went to the wilderness program!!</p><p></p><p>So yeah to me the reason to set them out clearly is to also set out clearly what will happen if the rules are not followed. Fully expect that to happen and be fully prepared to follow through with the consequence.</p><p></p><p>TL</p><p></p><p></p><p>Sent using ConductDisorders mobile app</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="toughlovin, post: 625426, member: 15801"] The only way contracts worked for us was to set up a list of requirements and consequence if they werent followed.... and then when the rules were not folflowed the consequence was clearly laid out and he knew exactly why the consequence happened. When he was 14 we had him sign a contract that if he got in trouble with the law or school he would willingly go to a wilderness program. It took him 4 days to have both happen and so then he went to the wilderness program!! So yeah to me the reason to set them out clearly is to also set out clearly what will happen if the rules are not followed. Fully expect that to happen and be fully prepared to follow through with the consequence. TL Sent using ConductDisorders mobile app [/QUOTE]
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