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<blockquote data-quote="timer lady" data-source="post: 43005" data-attributes="member: 393"><p>Yelling makes me crazy. Both husband & I are calm by nature - yelling is not a common occurrence here.</p><p></p><p>Having said that, the more escalated my little wonders become, the quieter I become. The times I have exploded it shocked kt & wm (when he was here at home).</p><p></p><p>The Explosive Child is an excellent book but this is something that is common sense - change your response. It's not working.</p><p></p><p>Now - where do you go with your frustrations - dig in a garden, beat the heck out of a pillow, workout, your favorite hobby.</p><p></p><p>Seriously, a "thank you for sharing your feelings" or "I appreciate knowing that" said to the tweedles did more than yelling or crying. </p><p></p><p>Seem to be rambling this morning - sorry. I hope this makes sense. </p><p></p><p>Good luck.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="timer lady, post: 43005, member: 393"] Yelling makes me crazy. Both husband & I are calm by nature - yelling is not a common occurrence here. Having said that, the more escalated my little wonders become, the quieter I become. The times I have exploded it shocked kt & wm (when he was here at home). The Explosive Child is an excellent book but this is something that is common sense - change your response. It's not working. Now - where do you go with your frustrations - dig in a garden, beat the heck out of a pillow, workout, your favorite hobby. Seriously, a "thank you for sharing your feelings" or "I appreciate knowing that" said to the tweedles did more than yelling or crying. Seem to be rambling this morning - sorry. I hope this makes sense. Good luck. [/QUOTE]
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