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<blockquote data-quote="Doddiemoemoe" data-source="post: 57023" data-attributes="member: 3846"><p>Is it when they have a job?(and have to deal with others on a reg. basis)</p><p></p><p>Is it when they take their medications on their own?</p><p></p><p>Is it when their actions and behaviors are so disruptive that YOU are ready to move out and leave them behind?</p><p></p><p>Does having younger easy child sibs have a bearing upon this?</p><p></p><p>Does it matter if they are attampting to go to college for the 10th time?</p><p></p><p>Does it matter if younger difficult child's are ready to go but you are reserveing resources for the eldest who should go first...or should the eldest, "suffer the consequences"....</p><p></p><p>If left to me..I would drop two of the three at the homeless shelter now...I'd even take their medications to them.</p><p></p><p>My elder males are sick and need to get out of our home in my humble opinion..Both have psychotic breaks from time to time.. I always want to call the authorities...my husband hides the phone from me..however, the youngsters are so far gone...during these episodes.....*heavy sigh*</p><p></p><p>I believe they should go..we have a minor living with us and it is not right..worse yet...I'm afraid she may be...well..</p><p></p><p>I expect the worse...which means they need to go. I may be wrong just looking for opinions here.</p><p></p><p>daughter</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Doddiemoemoe, post: 57023, member: 3846"] Is it when they have a job?(and have to deal with others on a reg. basis) Is it when they take their medications on their own? Is it when their actions and behaviors are so disruptive that YOU are ready to move out and leave them behind? Does having younger easy child sibs have a bearing upon this? Does it matter if they are attampting to go to college for the 10th time? Does it matter if younger difficult child's are ready to go but you are reserveing resources for the eldest who should go first...or should the eldest, "suffer the consequences".... If left to me..I would drop two of the three at the homeless shelter now...I'd even take their medications to them. My elder males are sick and need to get out of our home in my humble opinion..Both have psychotic breaks from time to time.. I always want to call the authorities...my husband hides the phone from me..however, the youngsters are so far gone...during these episodes.....*heavy sigh* I believe they should go..we have a minor living with us and it is not right..worse yet...I'm afraid she may be...well.. I expect the worse...which means they need to go. I may be wrong just looking for opinions here. daughter [/QUOTE]
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