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<blockquote data-quote="Tiredof33" data-source="post: 701054" data-attributes="member: 13558"><p>Tanya, I think that is what annoys me so much about the one sided relationship with my son. I feel used, like I'm only important as long as I'm forking over money.</p><p></p><p>I'm really at the point with this almost middle aged kid where I say, "screw you" and blot him out of my life.</p><p></p><p>'Course, I won't because I love my child very much. I simply get tired of the frustrating cycle.</p><p></p><p>Deep down, I think my daughter will have a rough time, but will make it. My son seems self destructive.</p><p></p><p>I had hoped this would be the time he has finally made progress and I am let down once more....I just need to recharge....I will react the same when he contacts me the next time (heavy hearted sigh inserted here). I have a hard time explaining to some people that detachment does not mean you love them less, it is for your own sanity.</p><p></p><p>Thank all of you.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Tiredof33, post: 701054, member: 13558"] Tanya, I think that is what annoys me so much about the one sided relationship with my son. I feel used, like I'm only important as long as I'm forking over money. I'm really at the point with this almost middle aged kid where I say, "screw you" and blot him out of my life. 'Course, I won't because I love my child very much. I simply get tired of the frustrating cycle. Deep down, I think my daughter will have a rough time, but will make it. My son seems self destructive. I had hoped this would be the time he has finally made progress and I am let down once more....I just need to recharge....I will react the same when he contacts me the next time (heavy hearted sigh inserted here). I have a hard time explaining to some people that detachment does not mean you love them less, it is for your own sanity. Thank all of you. [/QUOTE]
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