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<blockquote data-quote="Scent of Cedar *" data-source="post: 626277" data-attributes="member: 17461"><p>The other thing that is so true here blackgnat is that <em>we</em> learn, <em>we</em> understand on a deeper level, with every post we read or respond to. Each of us has been where you are now, and has struggled to learn a better way. The incredible blessing for all of us is that we do learn a better way. We learn how to love our self-destructive kids without judging or resenting them, and we learn how to find our ways back to loving ourselves. We learn how to change the pattern blackgnat, not by changing our kids, but by changing our responses <em>to them and to ourselves</em>.<em> </em> </p><p></p><p>As we do that, we begin letting go of judgment and blame, first for the kids and then, miracle of miracles, for ourselves. We begin to cherish and befriend ourselves, again.</p><p></p><p>I am so very glad you are here with us. </p><p></p><p>Cedar</p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p>We come to understand that</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Scent of Cedar *, post: 626277, member: 17461"] The other thing that is so true here blackgnat is that [I]we[/I] learn, [I]we[/I] understand on a deeper level, with every post we read or respond to. Each of us has been where you are now, and has struggled to learn a better way. The incredible blessing for all of us is that we do learn a better way. We learn how to love our self-destructive kids without judging or resenting them, and we learn how to find our ways back to loving ourselves. We learn how to change the pattern blackgnat, not by changing our kids, but by changing our responses [I]to them and to ourselves[/I].[I] [/I] As we do that, we begin letting go of judgment and blame, first for the kids and then, miracle of miracles, for ourselves. We begin to cherish and befriend ourselves, again. I am so very glad you are here with us. Cedar We come to understand that [/QUOTE]
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